Dear families,

Welcome back after a long weekend. Our big lesson today was about the word listen. What does it mean when we truly listen? The Chinese character for listen encompasses many small words that make up the written word for listen. We took a careful look at the image. Listening means we use our eyes, ears, mind, heart, and give our undivided attention. When I first learned this about a decade ago, I thought it was so profound how listen is written in Chinese because it acknowledges the different parts of us that we need to use in order to deeply listen to each other. I often say, “listening is the gift of your attention” and that there is a big difference between hearing and listening. There is an active component to listening that goes far beyond just hearing people speak.It is a demonstration of respect and valuing others.

LISTEN and SILENT are spelled with the same letters. Coincidence?

Then we listened to a story about Howard B. Wigglebottom Learns to Listen. To watch again at home together, click on video:

We responded to this text by writing the listening strategies that will work best for us and considered what we need to do most in order to be a better listener.

This afternoon, we set some goals for ourselves: a listening goal, speaking goal, and a reading goal. I was impressed with how accurate and honest they were about setting these goals. As they posted their goals, I found myself nodding my head, one sticky note at a time, in agreeance. During our Reading Groups, we are still working on our Say Something Strategy. Students will be receiving this reference sheet as a visual to help them come up with something to say. Some students were very excited to move on to their new book groups today.

It is World Kindness Week. We had a great class discussion about why we would have a week that celebrates kindness and why it’s important. We then dove into the difference between nice and kind. I loved how people were building on each other’s ideas. Eventually, we discovered that nice is not the same as kind. You can be nice but not kind and kind but not nice. We had to do some deep thinking around this. Being kind [rooted in love and care] may mean being honest so that others can improve. I have been saying for decades that there is more than one way to say the same thing so how do you choose to be honest and kind?

Tomorrow is World Kindness Day. Feel free to do some front loading at home before they come to school tomorrow. I can’t wait to see what ways they can show kindness!

Sincerely, Ms. Chan