I would not like to be matched by my community elders because, I would like to have that choice, of who I spend the rest of my life with. Even though the community elders, find the best match for you, just because you have the same interests as them, doesn’t mean you will have feelings for them. Another reason I wouldn’t want to be matched by my community elders is if you end up get matched with one of your good childhood friends, it would be werid to end up getting married to them.