I think that the stirrings are feelings of authority over people and that the community doesn’t want people having these feelings because they want control over people so they can create the perfect society. I also think they might be feelings of love and affection towards people and that that the community doesn’t want people having these feelings because you don’t get to choose your spouse, and if you have feelings of affection towards someone else you might not want to apply for a child or you might want to be divorced which would create disorder in the community, which the community doesn’t want because they are trying to create the perfect society.