I would not want to be matched by the community elders because if you are matched you will only get to meet one person and no one else. If you are not matched you get to meet more people and you can pick if you want to marry them or not. Another reason is because if you are matched you do not get the freedom of choice and if you do not like the person you got matched with you might get released and if you are not being matched you do not get released if you do not like the person, because you pick who you want to marry those are all the reasons I do not want to be matched.